What be a dad today? Does it prevent her daughter from falling depriving the rewarding experience of failure or is it the left stranded for more help to get up and accompany him learning? Does it show the path it should take or is it that he is leaving the choice by illuminating its aspirations even if they are the opposite of ours? Is it him avoid all the dangers of life at the risk that the reality one day he stings the face without being prepared? Does it give him what we had or did not do is offer him already, what we got. What values should we teach him? Selfishness to survive in this world that is full? Altruism at risk of being stepped on, but with the consciousness safe? Should the bridge of love than she ever lack with the risk of poisoning to do? Let alone to change it to be strong and independent and lose his sociability? Should it prohibit large words or teach him how to use them wisely? Should he remove the objects that could break or with which it might hurt himself or tell him not to touch them? Should we ban everything? Should we ban spanking? Should she shout louder to be heard or just listen to be understood?
Today, a father raises many questions. Perhaps more than his dad and even more than his dad's dad. This does not prevent him probably not make mistakes. The same or more. You just do the best we can. In any case, when a dad like me home in the evening a day full of shit noise pollution, visual, olfactory and intellectual there is no sweeter comfort that smile portrait drawn in by his little darling of not even three years. And then more questions. Pride, praise and the grin of pride on my swollen aphid satisfied.
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